A Great Picnic and More Events in October

A Great Picnic and More Events in October

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Dear Parishioners: What a day last Sunday! Your prayers for good weather worked as our First Annual Parish Family Picnic saw spectacular weather.  We also saw well over 600 people come together to celebrate as a parish family. Father Shemek reports that his 50 pounds of cabbage and kielbasa went very quickly along with his hundreds of Polish Potato Pancakes.  We served nearly 900 cups of ice cream too!  It truly was a great afternoon of good times, good food and good fun.

Fr. Shemek and his hard working Picnic Committee did a great job getting it all organized and provided us with a wonderful parish event.  In your name, I offer thanks and gratitude for their tremendous job of organizing this great day in less than a month.  Many parishioners asked if we would be doing this again.  Yes, it will be an annual event to celebrate the Feast of Our Lady of Mercy for our entire parish. The OLM Picnic Committee is meeting soon to review this year’s picnic and plan for next years.  If you would like to help or take part in the planning of next year’s picnic, please let Father Shemek know.

I invite all our Catholic lawyers in the parish and all those who work in the legal community to come to the Annual Red Mass at the Cathedral on Wednesday night at 5:30pm.  Many lawyers and judges will gather to invoke the blessings of the Holy Spirit for the judicial year.  This year’s homilist is my good friend from Brooklyn, New York, Monsignor Kieran Harrington.  It is a great event and I encourage you to attend especially if you are a lawyer.   Also for those parishioners who are physicians and work in the health care field the Annual White Mass is scheduled for Wednesday, October 10th at 7:00PM.  I encourage our many OLM doctors and nurses to go to this special event for Catholics who work in the medical world.

It’s hard to believe that October is upon us already and that autumn is here too!  It is a month dedicated to devotion to our Blessed Mother Mary and so we will continue the tradition of October Devotions on Monday nights at 7:00PM. Why not skip Wheel of Fortune and join us in praying the Rosary and adoring the Eucharistic Lord?  Devotions are a important part of our Catholic tradition and I encourage you to come on Mondays this month.  If you wouldn’t do it for the Mother of God, then who would you do it for?

October is also Respect Life Month and so I ask you to pray for an increase of respect for the sanctity of human life and human dignity.  There is great need of this in our world where there is too much disrespect for human life and too much violence.  Pray for life!  I will be away next weekend to perform a wedding in Scranton, Pennsylvania.   God Bless.  Go Pats!

 

Gratitude for Generous Response to Retired Priests!

Gratitude for Generous Response to Retired Priests!

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Dear Parishioners: Let  me begin by offering my gratitude for your generous response to the  Priests’ Retirement Fund Collection last weekend.  Your generosity in support of this important collection helped raise over $11,000  and is a steep increase from last year’s total of $7,700.   In the name of all the priests of the Diocese of Providence, I offer our thanks for your support.  I called Fr. Kiley this week to tell him what an effective preacher he truly is and that he is welcome back to OLM anytime!

I also thank the many people who helped to plan and prepare the beautiful Mass and Reception for my installation as Pastor last Sunday.  The presence of  so many parishioners, family, and friends at the Mass was a great source of joy.  I am also grateful to Bishop Evans, my brother priests, the Choir, the Altar Servers and so many others who ensured the Mass was so truly beautiful.  It was a great beginning to my pastorate here at Our Lady of Mercy and again I thank God and Bishop Tobin for sending me to such a wonderful community of faith.  May Our Lady of Mercy, our parish patroness, continue to guide us in the years ahead.

This week we welcomed our First Graders to the Religious Education Program at OLM.  It is always so hopeful to see these young children and their families come to Mass and RE Class.   They were a little shy at first but I’m confident that by the end of classes they will know their prayers and continue to provide hope for the future of our parish.  I thank all of our RE parents for their commitment to ensuring their children are educated and formed in the Catholic Faith.  They are an important and vital part of our parish family.

Fr. Shemek reports that over 30 youth came to the Youth Group Meeting last Saturday. A great beginning to what promises to be an important part of  the life and vitality of our parish family.  There is much planned for the year ahead and all high school students from OLM are free to join them.  Keep an eye on the bulletin for updates on their many activities. I hope to see you on Sunday at the Parish Picnic from Noon to 5pm.  It looks like a beautiful day with good food, good times and good company are in store for us.  God Bless. Go Pats, please!!!

 

Becoming "We" at Our Lady of Mercy

Becoming "We" at Our Lady of Mercy

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Dear Parishioners:

We had a great afternoon last Sunday at our OLM School Picnic.  The sun was shining; the food was good and the company even better.  Father Shemek and I truly enjoyed meeting many of our school families. It was a great way to start the school year.  My thanks to all who worked so hard in planning and preparing it.  Of course, it was made all the better as the Picnic began after an impressive Patriot’s victory!

On Monday I spoke to a large group of OLM School Parents at the Open House.  I shared with them my fear that at times an attitude appears in the Church that the support of our Catholic schools is only the duty of the parents who have children there and sometimes schools are looked upon as “drain” on the rest of the parish.  However, sometimes the school is viewed by school families as a separate entity removed from the life of the parish. Neither attitude is acceptable and both are really “non-Catholic.”  OLM School families are a vital part of our parish community as are the many families whose children do not attend the school.  Too often parishes develop an attitude of “us and them.” This type of attitude is unacceptable for any faith community but most especially for a Catholic Parish Family.  It can never be “us and them” but must always be “we” at Our Lady of Mercy!

We have a wonderful opportunity to celebrate the “We” of Our Lady of Mercy next Sunday at our Parish Family Picnic.  Father Shemek and his hardworking committee have planned a great day in just a short time.  There will be good food, good times and good fun for the entire parish family.  We’ve heard from over 600 families that they will be attending.  I hope you and your family might join us!  Father Shemek and I have been truly humbled by the warm welcome and enthusiastic reception we have received since arriving at OLM and we are looking forward to seeing and celebrating our Catholic faith and our parish family next Sunday.

My thanks to Bishop Evans for taking the time from his busy schedule to celebrate Mass and install me as Pastor of Our Lady of Mercy this weekend.  I am overjoyed to be here and look forward to serving such a wonderful parish family.  God Bless.  Go Pats!!

Celebrating the Work of our Senior Priests!

Celebrating the Work of our Senior Priests!

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Dear Parishioners: Labor Day Weekend has come and gone and so it seems has summer!  It’s good news and bad news!  The good news is that now we get to see and meet many parishioners who have been away at those “summer parishes” but the bad news is we meet summer’s end.  It’s good news too that the Patriot’s Season Opener is Sunday after all the bad news about the Red Sox!!  The good news is that after just a month here at Our Lady of Mercy I am now beginning to settle in a bit but the bad news is I still don’t know everyone’s name yet! It’s certainly good news to welcome Father John A. Kiley who is with us this weekend to preach on behalf of the Senior Priests’ Retirement Fund.  The fund which provides a modest pension for Senior Priests of the Diocese of Providence is greatly underfunded and is in critical need of financial support.   Father Kiley was a long serving and distinguished pastor in our Diocese who retired last June and now serves as one of our finest Senior Priests.  He provided great help to me while I was Pastor at St. Ambrose and he continues to serve there regularly. In addition to that he also serves many other parishes as a supply priest as well as helping out the Chaplains at Rhode Island Hospital.  Father Kiley never says “No” when it comes to serving God’s people! Father Kiley still writes his weekly column in The Rhode Island Catholic entitled The Quiet Corner and he is a frequently published letter-to-the-editor writer to The Providence Journal.  With credit to General McArthur’s Farewell Address to Congress let me paraphrase: “Old priests never die nor do they fade away!” For as you can see by Father Kiley’s exemplary example, Senior Priests in the Diocese of Providence are vital to the continued life and ministry of our Church and the many parishes of our Diocese.  In their name and my own, I ask you to please be generous in next week’s Second Collection for the Senior Priests’ Retirement Fund.  Consider your gift as an act of thanksgiving for the priests you’ve known over the years and the many Senior Priests today who like Father Kiley have served and continue to serve so faithfully in our Diocese. It seems ironic that the very weekend I am to be officially installed as the seventeenth Pastor of Our Lady of Mercy Church; we are having a second collection for retired priests!  I am far from retiring as I am only 47 years old and cannot even consider  retirement until I am at least 70 and then only if the Bishop allows it!  So I am here to stay and hope in the years ahead we can together continue to build upon the fine tradition of faith and good works at Our Lady of Mercy Parish.  Bishop Evans is to officially install me as Pastor next Sunday at the 10:30AM Mass. If you cannot be present at the Mass, I humbly ask for your continued prayers for my pastorate.  May Our Lady of Mercy, our Parish Patroness, continue to guide and protect us as we serve her Son and His Church.  God Bless. Go Pats!!!

Holy Days, Picnic and Native Son Returns

Holy Days, Picnic and Native Son Returns

Dear Parishioners: It was great to see so many come out for the Holy Day Masses on the Solemnity of the Assumption this past week.  Certainly those who turned out for 7:30AM Mass right in the middle of the torrential downpours on Wednesday morning are to be commended for their great witness!  Unfortunately for many Catholics, Holy Days of Obligation and even Sundays seem to be more of an option than an obligation.  So perhaps those of us who come to Mass each week and strive to attend Mass on Holy Days might reach out to our friends, neighbors, fellow parishioners and even our own family members and invite them to join us at Mass.  In the meantime, let us commit to praying for all those who choose not to be with us at Mass that they too might come to realize what a grace and blessing coming to the Eucharist truly is for us!

Father Shemek reports a great group showed up for the OLM Family Picnic Planning meeting last Sunday and are ready, willing and able to help us have a great event on September 23rd. They came up with some great ideas and set up committees to help the Picnic run smoothly.  If you are interested in helping or volunteering in any way, please see the bulletin for contact information.  This is the First OLM Family Picnic but we hope that it will lead to an annual gathering for our parish family on the Feast of our Patroness, Our Lady of Mercy.  By the way, we checked the schedule and the Patriots have a Sunday night game so there is no excuse for not coming to the Picnic!  Father Shemek has promised to prepare some Polish food and teach us how to play soccer the Polish way!  So if you can help out, please sign up and if you can’t help, please show up to celebrate our faith and our community.

Next Saturday night at the 5:00PM Mass we welcome home the newly ordained, Father Eric Bennett, to Our Lady of Mercy Parish.  Father Bennett was ordained a priest this past June for service in the Archdiocese of Boston but he is a native of OLM and his family are parishioners.  His brother Brian is presently a seminarian studying for the priesthood for the Diocese of Providence.  It is a great privilege for our parish to have Father celebrate a Mass of Thanksgiving at his home parish.  So I hope you might join us for the Mass and the Reception to follow in Mercy Park.  Please pray for Father Bennett as he begins his priestly ministry at the Parish of St. Bridget and Gate of Heaven in South Boston.  Also I encourage you to pray for an increase of vocations to the priesthood and religious life.  I have no doubt that God is calling many young men and women to serve his Church, let us pray for them.

Have a great week! Don’t forget to mark your calendar for the Family Picnic on September 23rd! God Bless.

The Bread of Life

First Homily at Our Lady of Mercy as New Pastor

Father Bernard A. Healey August 5, 2012

Today’s Gospel from St John is part of the lengthy Bread of Life discourse. The crowd in the Gospel has many expectations of Jesus and is curious about him. The questions from the crowd in the Gospel are what drive the discourse. They have an expectation already in mind and so they wish to question Jesus to see if it’s correct.

Managing people's expectations is one of the challenges of successful living. This is true no matter whether it happens within a marriage, at work, or, indeed, in a parish. All sorts of people put expectations upon us; expectations that we may not have the slightest clue are a condition for their relationship to us. When we don't measure up to what they want or need from us, even if we are completely unaware of it, then we are in for trouble.

So it occurred to me that the crowd at OLM today like the crowd in the Gospel might be curious about who this man is before them. After all I am the new priest on the block; even Fr. Shemek has been here longer than me! I’m sure you have lots questions for me and about me: questions about who I am, what I might do, if I am likeable and approachable, and even questions like when did I lose all my hair?

The crowd in the Gospel wasn’t really all that different than the congregation here in East Greenwich this morning/this evening. Their first question posed to Jesus is: “Rabbi, when did you get here?” Interestingly enough Jesus chooses not to answer, but you too might be wondering, “Father, when did you get here?” It is no mystery, late Friday night!

However, I have been to OLM many times during my seventeen years of priesthood. And over the last month I have visited here frequently, spent time with Fr. Shemek and getting to know the staff, and received a warm welcome by all (it helps that they’re all Red Sox fans, although I’m not sure about Sister Rose!).

I’ve met a few parishioners and have known a few already, but I am looking forward to meeting all of you and learning your names! Give me a week or so for that.

I’ve been listening about what makes OLM the great parish it is and I’ve seen firsthand the dedication and pride in being part of this parish family. It is a distinct privilege and a great joy to be here and serve as your pastor. I am excited and truly look forward to sharing in your pride and dedication of this parish family.

In the Gospel crowd then asked Jesus: “What can we do to accomplish the works of God?” Jesus, challenged his listeners to set their minds and hearts on one work only: that of believing in him.

You might ask the same question of me, “Father, what can we do to undertake the works of God in East Greenwich?” The answer remains the same, that of believing in him, Jesus Christ, the Son of God.

With this belief as our firm foundation, I pray and hope that together we all might wade deep into the waters of faith, deep into the life of God, deep into our call to Christian discipleship, and deeper into the sacramental life of the Church.

Together, with the help of God, we can continue to expand and improve the services offered by the parish, maintain this beautiful church in its all its splendor, further educate ourselves and our children in the rich teaching of our Church and strive always to serve our brothers and sisters in creative and compassionate ways so that by our actions we may witness to believing in him.

Finally, the crowd asks Jesus, “So what can you do?” It might be the very question on your mind as well. “So Father Healey what can you do?”  Well, I can do nothing without your help. I can accomplish little without your support. I can achieve even less without your firm faith in Jesus Christ and His mission.

But just as it was the wrong question 2000 years ago, it remains the wrong question today.  We should rather ask: “Father Healey, What can we do together for the Lord?”

It is a question for both priest and parishioner, it is a question for both parent and child, and it is a question for all of us! Whether we are 80 or 8 years old, we must ask that question every day of our lives. How can we serve the Lord and serve our neighbor today more than we did yesterday?

Our work is cut out for us, as it is and has always been for every disciple of Christ. Jesus invites us today as he did the crowd 2000 years ago to be taught, to be fed, and to be one with him, the Bread of Life.

Each time we gather as a parish family around this altar of sacrifice to remember and to give thanks for all that God has given us in Jesus, our faith is strengthened but also challenged anew. To remember Christ in this way is more than a ritual act of worship, it is to accept living under the sign of the cross and in the hope of the resurrection. It is to accept the meaning of a life that was given over to death for the sake of others.

Once it is accepted. Each of us are called to proclaim it at every Eucharist and to live it every day by committing to loving and serving every member of the Body of Christ. Christ reminds us of this call in the Gospel today: “I am the bread of life, whoever comes to me will never hunger, and whoever believes in me will never thirst.”

Receiving the Bread of Life is a commitment to the life. When we come to communion we are bound by the Presence within us to live the life of the Lord in a way that bears witness to His Life in our world. For the committed Catholic disciple, religion is not a sometimes affair, not just a once a week happening.

For us religion means being bound to Christ. The very word religion comes from the Latin word ligare which means to be bound. Our faith is who we are, people bound to Christ. This is what it means to be a priest and this is what it means to be a parishioner of Our Lady of Mercy Parish.

As we strive to grow in the Life of the Lord every day, we are reminded of what St. Ignatius of Antioch wrote shortly before his death: “A Christian is not their own master. Our time is God’s.”  My time here, our time together is truly God’s time.

My friends, there is a part of us that knows in the core of our very being that this is true. It is the part of us that cries out with the people in today’s Gospel, “Lord, give us this bread always.”