Staying True to Lent and Saying Farewell to Benedict!

Dear Parishioners: Enough snow already! The second weekend in a row it snowed! Just as we cleaned up after the Blizzard Nemo, Mother Nature decided to bring us another snowstorm.  I’ve had enough of the white stuff for a while.  Pray that if it snows again it will be on a Tuesday or Wednesday so everyone can get out for Mass!

How is your Lent going? Are you keeping up your Lenten promises to pray, fast and give alms?  If you’ve slipped because of the snowstorms or vacation, don’t worry and just start again.  It’s forty days and it’s well worth the effort to get closer to the Lord and His Church.

There’s no better way to pray then to come to Mass, so considering making it part of your daily life during Lent.  The Mass is the source and summit of our lives as Catholic disciples and we can gain strength to live a life of holiness and faith. Why not join us for Daily Mass at either 7:30AM or 12:05PM?

When’s the last time you went to Confession? Was it a week, a month, a year or even a decade ago?  No matter, you’re always welcomed back to the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  Confessions at Our Lady of Mercy during Lent are offered on Mondays from 5:30PM until 6:30PM, so stop by on the way home from work!  We also continue to offer Weekly Confession on Saturdays at 3:00PM. Get Confession on your calendar, it’s good for the soul!

Of course, we also have Stations of the Cross every Friday at 7:00PM.  It is one of the most important devotions honoring the passion of Jesus.  What matters most in the Stations of the Cross is to follow Jesus Christ in his passion and to see ourselves mirrored in him. By accompanying him on the Way of the Cross, we gain his courageous patience and learn to trust in God who delivers us from evil. I hope you are able to make the Stations at least once during Lent.

One of the three pillars of Lent is fasting. Reflecting on this ancient and venerable practice, Pope Benedict suggests: "Denying material food, which nourishes our body, nurtures an interior disposition to listen to Christ and be fed by His saving word. Through fasting and praying, we allow Him to come and satisfy the deepest hunger that we experience in the depths of our being: the hunger and thirst for God." 

During Lent we fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday but we are also asked to fast from meat on Fridays.  Fasting and abstaining from meat on Fridays is a great Lenten discipline. How is it going for you?   We are called to refrain from the indulging in the pleasure of a good steak or a juicy hamburger not as a punishment but as a penitential practice to grow closer to the Lord who died for us on Good Friday.  If we aren’t  focusing on Jesus and on the Cross when we abstain from the meat, then the matter can become less about Lent and more about “should I have the meatless pizza, a grilled cheese sandwich or a Lobster Roll?” We all know that it’s so much more than that.

Next weekend I will be speaking at all Masses about the Catholic Charity Appeal.  This annual drive  calls us to financially support the good works of our Diocese.  It is an important part of our lives as Catholics in Rhode Island.  Every parish in the state is called upon to assist in helping those most in need and the most vulnerable in the Ocean State. Our CCA Chair, Kevin McDevitt, will also lead us through the in-pew pledge portion of the Appeal at all Masses.  Please pray for the success of the CCA and consider making a pledge next week.  Thank you for your generous support.

We continue to pray for Pope Benedict and for our Church during this time of transition. I ask you to especially pray on Thursday for the Holy Father on his last day as Pope and invite you to join us for a special Mass at Noon in thanksgiving for his Pontificate.  We are thankful for his service and leadership of our Church but also hopeful as we await the election of a new Pope.  May the Holy Spirit continue to guide us!  Remember Fridays are for fish and Stations of the Cross. God Bless.

Of Blizzards, Popes and Almsgiving in Lent!

Dear Parishioners: I hope by now everyone has their power back!  The blizzard hit us hard last weekend here at OLM.  We lost power on Friday and it wasn’t restored until after Fr. Shemek celebrated the 4:00PM Mass on Saturday in the dark and cold.  There was a band of brave souls who made it out for the Mass.  Saturday night the power was restored and so Sunday Masses had light and heat but not very many people!  I am grateful to our maintenance crew who worked so hard plowing and shoveling all that snow.  Also I wish to thank Sister Jeanne, OLM Principal, who took in Sisters Edna, Lucy and Rose to the St. Rose Convent during the blizzard.  Both our convents lost power and I was grateful to the Warwick Police for transporting the good sisters from OLM to St. Rose Convent so they could be safe, warm and well fed!

No sooner did we start recovering from the blizzard when news arrived of  Pope Benedict’s startling news that he is to resign as our Pope at the end of the month.  The Holy Father has decided that age 85 he doesn’t have the physical strength to continue leading our Church with the vigor needed for the job.  This is the first time in centuries that a reigning Pope has resigned and so it has left many asking what will happen. Pope Benedict will step down and the College of Cardinals will gather in conclave in Rome to elect a successor.  This will take place in March and I hope we might have a new Pope by Easter!  In the meantime, let us pray for our Holy Father, Pope Benedict XVI, and offer our thanks to God for giving us such a gentle, wise and humble shepherd to lead our Church.

We were reminded on Ash Wednesday that “we are dust and to dust we will return” and to “repent and believe in the Gospel.”  As we begin our Lenten journey of forty days, I invite you to consider joining us each day for Daily Mass at 7:30 AM or 12:05 PM  and to walk the Way of the Cross each Friday at 7:00 PM, Our Lenten Year of the Faith Lecture Series begins this Monday night at 7:00 PM in the OLM School Auditorium with the young and dynamic Father Joseph Upton speaking on the Sacraments of the Church.  A complete listing of the series is in this week’s bulletin.  In this Year of Faith and during this Lenten Season, these lectures are  a great way to deepen our knowledge and understanding of our Catholic Faith.

One of the three pillars of Lent is almsgiving.  Pope Benedict XVI explained "In inviting us to consider almsgiving with a more profound gaze that transcends the purely material dimension, Scripture teaches us that there is more joy in giving than in receiving (Acts 20:35). Every time when, for love of God, we share our goods with our neighbor in need, we discover that the fullness of life comes from love and all is returned to us as a blessing in the form of peace, inner satisfaction and joy." One of the many ways we bear witness to almsgiving during Lent is through the annual Catholic Charity Appeal.  I am happy to announce that Kevin and Nancy McDevitt will serve as the General Chairs of the CCA here at OLM We will kickoff the Charity Appeal the first weekend of March with the in-pew part of the drive.  This is the first time OLM has used in-pew solicitation for the Charity Appeal but most  parishes use this system very effectively as the means to obtain pledges and donations.

Last year Our Lady of Mercy Parish fell short of reaching its goal for the Charity Appeal but I am confident that with the strong leadership of our Chairs and your generous response we will not only reach our goal of $195,000 but surpass it!  I also wish to thank Stephen and Antonia Zubiago for agreeing to serve as the Chairs of the Bishop’s Partnership in Charity portion of the Appeal.  The BPC is for those donors who can generously donate $1,000 or more to the Charity Appeal.  We will be reaching out to our BPC donors in the coming weeks as the kick-off the Appeal at OLM approaches.

Have a great Lent! I wish a happy and healthy vacation this week  to all  our school children! Remember Fridays are for fish and Stations of the Cross. God Bless.

Pope Benedict's Final Homily as Pope

Venerable Brothers,Dear Brothers and Sisters!

Today, Ash Wednesday, we begin a new Lenten journey, a journey that extends over forty days and leads us towards the joy of Easter, to victory of Life over death. Following the ancient Roman tradition of Lenten stations, we are gathered for the celebration of the Holy Eucharist. The tradition says that the first statio took place in the Basilica of Saint Sabina on the Aventine Hill. Circumstances suggested we gather in St. Peter's Basilica. Tonight there are many of us gathered around the tomb of the Apostle Peter, to also ask him to pray for the path of the Church going forward at this particular moment in time, to renew our faith in the Supreme Pastor, Christ the Lord. For me it is also a good opportunity to thank everyone, especially the faithful of the Diocese of Rome, as I prepare to conclude the Petrine ministry, and I ask you for a special remembrance in your prayer.

The readings that have just been proclaimed offer us ideas which, by the grace of God, we are called to transform into a concrete attitude and behaviour during Lent. First of all the Church proposes the powerful appeal which the prophet Joel addresses to the people of Israel, "Thus says the Lord, return to me with all your heart, with fasting, with weeping, and with mourning" (2.12). Please note the phrase "with all your heart," which means from the very core of our thoughts and feelings, from the roots of our decisions, choices and actions, with a gesture of total and radical freedom. But is this return to God possible? Yes, because there is a force that does not reside in our hearts, but that emanates from the heart of God and the power of His mercy. The prophet says: "return to the Lord, your God, for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love, and relenting in punishment" (v. 13). It is possible to return to the Lord, it is a 'grace', because it is the work of God and the fruit of faith that we entrust to His mercy. But this return to God becomes a reality in our lives only when the grace of God penetrates and moves our innermost core, gifting us the power that "rends the heart". Once again the prophet proclaims these words from God: "Rend your hearts and not your garments" (v. 13). Today, in fact, many are ready to "rend their garments" over scandals and injustices – which are of course caused by others - but few seem willing to act according to their own "heart", their own conscience and their own intentions, by allowing the Lord transform, renew and convert them.

This "return to me with all your heart," then, is a reminder that not only involves the individual but the entire community. Again we heard in the first reading: "Blow the horn in Zion! Proclaim a fast, call an assembly! Gather the people, sanctify the congregation; Assemble the elderly; gather the children, even infants nursing at the breast; Let the bridegroom leave his room, and the bride her bridal tent (vv.15-16). The community dimension is an essential element in faith and Christian life. Christ came "to gather the children of God who are scattered into one" (Jn 11:52). The "we" of the Church is the community in which Jesus brings us together (cf. Jn 12:32), faith is necessarily ecclesial. And it is important to remember and to live this during Lent: each person must be aware that the penitential journey cannot be faced alone, but together with many brothers and sisters in the Church.

Finally, the prophet focuses on the prayers of priests, who, with tears in their eyes, turn to God, saying: " Between the porch and the altar let the priests weep, let the ministers of the LORD weep and say: “Spare your people, Lord! Do not let your heritage become a disgrace, a byword among the nations! Why should they say among the peoples, ‘Where is their God?’"(V.17). This prayer leads us to reflect on the importance of witnessing to faith and Christian life, for each of us and our community, so that we can reveal the face of the Church and how this face is, at times, disfigured. I am thinking in particular of the sins against the unity of the Church, of the divisions in the body of the Church. Living Lent in a more intense and evident ecclesial communion, overcoming individualism and rivalry is a humble and precious sign for those who have distanced themselves from the faith or who are indifferent.

"Well, now is the favourable time, this is the day of salvation" (2 Cor 6:2). The words of the Apostle Paul to the Christians of Corinth resonate for us with an urgency that does not permit absences or inertia. The term "now" is repeated and can not be missed, it is offered to us as a unique opportunity. And the Apostle's gaze focuses on sharing with which Christ chose to characterize his life, taking on everything human to the point of taking on all of man’s sins. The words of St. Paul are very strong: "God made him sin for our sake." Jesus, the innocent, the Holy One, "He who knew no sin" (2 Cor 5:21), bears the burden of sin sharing the outcome of death, and death of the Cross with humanity. The reconciliation we are offered came at a very high price, that of the Cross raised on Golgotha, on which the Son of God made man was hung. In this, in God’s immersion in human suffering and the abyss of evil, is the root of our justification. The "return to God with all your heart" in our Lenten journey passes through the Cross, in following Christ on the road to Calvary, to the total gift of self. It is a journey on which each and every day we learn to leave behind our selfishness and our being closed in on ourselves, to make room for God who opens and transforms our hearts. And as St. Paul reminds us, the proclamation of the Cross resonates within us thanks to the preaching of the Word, of which the Apostle himself is an ambassador. It is a call to us so that this Lenten journey be characterized by a more careful and assiduous listening to the Word of God, the light that illuminates our steps.

In the Gospel passage according of Matthew, to whom belongs to the so-called Sermon on the Mount, Jesus refers to three fundamental practices required by the Mosaic Law: almsgiving, prayer and fasting. These are also traditional indications on the Lenten journey to respond to the invitation to «return to God with all your heart." But he points out that both the quality and the truth of our relationship with God is what qualifies the authenticity of every religious act. For this reason he denounces religious hypocrisy, a behaviour that seeks applause and approval. The true disciple does not serve himself or the "public", but his Lord, in simplicity and generosity: "And your Father who sees everything in secret will reward you" (Mt 6,4.6.18). Our fitness will always be more effective the less we seek our own glory and the more we are aware that the reward of the righteous is God Himself, to be united to Him, here, on a journey of faith, and at the end of life, in the peace light of coming face to face with Him forever (cf. 1 Cor 13:12).

Dear brothers and sisters, we begin our Lenten journey with trust and joy. May the invitation to conversion , to "return to God with all our heart", resonate strongly in us, accepting His grace that makes us new men and women, with the surprising news that is participating in the very life of Jesus. May none of us, therefore, be deaf to this appeal, also addressed in the austere rite, so simple and yet so beautiful, of the imposition of ashes, which we will shortly carry out. May the Virgin Mary, Mother of the Church and model of every true disciple of the Lord accompany us in this time. Amen!

The Vatican's English translation of Joseph Ratzinger's final homily as Pope Benedict XVI, bishop of Rome, the 264th successor of St Peter. Ash Wednesday, February 13, 2012

Lent is coming! What are you doing about it??

Dear Parishioners: Last Saturday, Bishop Tobin ordained twenty-one men as Permanent Deacons for the Diocese of Providence.   These twenty-one men began their formation program in January of 2009, attending classes in Theology, Scripture, Homiletics, Canon Law and Liturgy and participating in weekend retreats as well as practical training for their ministry. The classes were conducted by the Diocese under the guidance  several the priests and deacons of the diocese and in cooperation with the Theology Department at Providence College.

Permanent Deacons are men, usually married, ordained to service in the Catholic Church. They serve in parishes, hospitals, nursing homes, prisons or other areas of ministry as needed. Additionally, they may lead classes for Baptismal and Marriage preparation, as well as Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults programs.  Permanent Deacons also officiate at Weddings, Baptisms, Wakes, and Burial Rites. They also serve at Mass and are to proclaim the Gospel and preach.  While Transitional Deacons go on to be ordained Priests, Permanent Deacons do not.  I was a Transitional Deacon for several months before I was ordained a Priest in 1995. While I know several priests served here as Transitional Deacons, I am not sure that Our Lady of Mercy has ever been assigned a Permanent Deacon.

Well, this week Bishop Tobin notified me that one of the newly ordained Permanent Deacons, John Dowd, has been assigned to Our Lady of Mercy.  In your name, I offer my congratulations and a warm welcome to him! Deacon John Dowd has been married for thirty-seven years to his wife, Cathleen  He is the Father of three children, ten grandchildren and one great-grandchild.  Two of his daughters, Cristen and Caite, both graduated from OLM School.  He lives with his wife in North Kingstown and  runs his own financial services  business here in East Greenwich.  Some of you may recognize him as he frequently attends Daily Mass here at OLM.  It is a very exciting opportunity for us to have a  Permanent Deacon serving our parish and I am looking forward to Deacon John’s ministry here at OLM.

Over the years Deacon John has been involved in many ministries in his home parish of St. Francis in Wakefield.  In the coming weeks you will have chance to welcome him personally as he begins his Diaconal Ministry here at OLM.  In the meantime, please keep Deacon John, his wife and family in your prayers.

The forty days of Lent begin this Wednesday with the arrival of Ash Wednesday.  A complete schedule of Masses and Lenten Devotions is in the bulletin.  This season of prayer and penance calls us to refocus our lives on Christ and renew our Catholic Faith.  In his annual   Lenten Message, this year Pope Benedict tells us:  The celebration of Lent, in the context of the Year of Faith, offers us a valuable opportunity to meditate on the relationship between faith and charity:   between believing in God – the God of Jesus Christ – and love, which is the fruit of the Holy Spirit and which guides us on the path of devotion to God and others.”                                                               

Lent is all about the Three Ps! Prayer, Penance and the Poor!  We are called to a more intense prayer life, take up penitential practices and server the poor.   Perhaps we might come to Daily Mass, Weekly Stations of the Cross, read the Scriptures daily, or pray the Rosary daily.  Perhaps we might give something up, take on some penitential practice or go to Confession more often.  Perhaps we might make sure we put our extra change in the Rice Bowls, sacrifice some luxury in our life and give the cost of it to the OLM Outreach efforts or simply volunteer to help at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter.

Lent calls us to recommit to Christ and His Church and bear witness to our faith.  “Remember you are dust and to dust you will return.” Lent will soon be here, what are you doing about it? God Bless. Welcome, Deacon John!

Getting Lent On Our Schedule!

Dear Parishioners: February is here already! It’s hard to believe but Lent begins in just over a week on February 13th!  It comes early this year as does Easter Sunday which is on March 31st.  In order to prepare for this season of renewal and repentance I have included in the bulletin a schedule of Lenten Activities.   These  Lenten activities  include an additional Daily Mass at 12:05 PM,  Confessions twice a week on Mondays and Saturdays, Stations of the Cross on Fridays and a Lenten Mission in March.  Also there will be an Adult Education Series on the Mondays of Lent that will begin on February 18th.  More information on the series will be coming soon.  But  please make room in your calendar now for these important activities as Lent will soon be upon us! 

If you have any old blessed palm branches from last year’s Palm Sunday Celebration, please bring them to Church next weekend.  We will be collecting your old palm branches so we can make new ashes for Ash Wednesday.  There will be a box in the vestibule to place your palm branches before and after Masses.

This Sunday the Church marks the Feast of St. Blaise with the traditional blessing of throats.  We know that Bishop Blaise was martyred in his episcopal city of Sebastea, Armenia, in 316.   He was a good bishop, working hard to encourage the spiritual and physical health of his people. Persecution of Christians still raged in Armenia and Blaise was forced to flee.  He lived as a hermit in solitude and prayer. One day a group of hunters stumbled upon Blaise’s cave. They were first surprised and then frightened. As the hunters hauled Blaise off to prison, the legend has it, a mother came with her young son who had a fish bone lodged in his throat. At Blaise’s command the child was able to cough up the bone.  The local pagan Governor tried to persuade Blaise to make sacrifices to pagan idols but the brave bishop refused and was beaten. The next time he was asked and refused, St. Blaise was suspended from a tree and his flesh torn with iron combs. Finally, he was beheaded and martyred for the faith.  He is invoked as the patron of throat ailments and so we will bless throats  after all Masses this weekend. May St. Blaise, bishop and martyr, intercede for us and our parish!

Also this weekend we celebrated First Confessions for our RE First Communion Class.  It is always a great joy to hear Confessions and reconcile sinners with God especially for the first time!  It was a great celebration for the Class and their families as not only the students but also their parents and families were able to come forward for Confession.   Please  pray for these students and their families as they continue to prepare to receive Christ in First Holy Communion.

Father Shemek is very excited that his sister and her family are coming for a visit from Poland next week.  They will be spending sometime here in Rhode Island and at Our Lady of Mercy.  He doesn’t get to see his family too often, so it will be a great reunion for them.    I guess I will have to brush up on my Polish in the coming days so I know what he is telling them about us!

Finally, last week the RI House of Representatives voted 51 to 19 to pass a bill that will  legalize same-sex marriage in our state.  The bill now moves to the State Senate for consideration and debate.  I encourage you to contact your State Senator today and urge them to oppose the bill. You can find out more about the issue and how to contact your elected officials at www.faithfulcitizenri.org I wish to publically offer my thanks and commend Rhode Island State Representatives Antonio Giarrusso from East Greenwich and Doreen Costa from North Kingstown for voting against the bill to legalize same-sex marriage.  Despite strong lobbying by a small, well-financed special interest group  and  intense political pressure from the leadership of the House to vote for the bill, they stayed true to their convictions that marriage is between a man and a woman. I am grateful for their courage and steadfastness in their beliefs. God Bless.

Celebrating Catholic Schools Week at OLM!

Dear Parishioners:Well unless your last name was Harbaugh, there wasn’t much to celebrate in New England last Sunday night!  Tom Brady and the Patriots are headed to the golf course while the Baltimore Ravens head to New Orleans for the Superbowl. I was also rooting for the Atlanta Falcons as I am a big fan of their quarterback, Matt Ryan, so it was a doubly disappointing Sunday as they lost to the San Francisco Forty-Niners! Oh well, pitchers and catchers report to Red Sox Spring Training on February 10th! Go Sox!

However, there is much to celebrate this week as we mark Catholic Schools Week across the nation.  This annual week celebrating Catholic Education brings with it celebrations such as the Open House this Sunday at OLM School.  This special week will also be highlighted at the Rhode Island State House this Thursday afternoon.   The Catholic School Parents Federation is hosting an event for the members of the RI General Assembly in which several award-winning Catholic School students from across the state will be honored for their achievements and excellence in academics, athletics and community service.

The week will be celebrated here at Our Lady of Mercy with this weekend’s Open House, a Wednesday classroom visit for prospective students, and a Special Mass on Friday at 9:00AM.  We invite all of our parishioners to join us for the Mass as we unite ourselves in prayer for Catholic Education in our nation and for the students, families, faculty and staff of Our Lady of Mercy School.

Last year the Wall Street Journal  ran column by  Peter Beinart, entitled The Jewish Case for School Vouchers.  He very effectively made the point that, if Jews in the United States are worried about their children and grandchildren keeping the faith the best course of action is to support Jewish grade and high schools.  Mr. Beinart convincingly shows that Jewish children who attend Hebrew private schools are statistically much more likely, as adults, to practice their Jewish faith, attend synagogue, marry a Jewish spouse, and pass on the faith of Israel to their own children.  He remarks that American Judaism is at a crisis, with more and more Jews leaving their faith, and not raising their own children as faithful Jews. A strong Jewish school system, argues the author, will correct that.

We Catholics have known this for years: there is no more tried-and-true way of passing on our Catholic faith to our kids than by sacrificing to put them in a Catholic school. In our nation’s history, Catholic schools had two goals: to educate excellently, and to form children in the faith. Both are essential.  More than ever am I convinced of the irreplaceable value of our Catholic schools.

Statistics show that alumni of Catholic grade schools, high schools, and colleges pray better and more often; know, accept, and practice the teachings of the faith better; are more committed to pro-life and social justice causes; are more likely to consider a vocation to the priesthood or religious life; support the Church more generously; volunteer more often; are more faithful to Sunday Mass; and have happier marriages. Not bad!

In full disclosure, I am a product of the Cranston Public School system.  However, all eight of my brothers and sisters went to St. Paul’s school. I remember my mother ironing  uniforms and making  lunches for them. The sacrifice my parents made to ensure a Catholic Education for my brothers and sisters was immeasurable.  I also see firsthand how the parents at Our Lady of Mercy School make the sacrifice  for Catholic education for their children.

I believe we can enhance our financial stewardship  of the school not just with tuition hikes, fees and fundraising but by creating true sense of stewardship of our school and its future for all our parishioners, our community at large and our alumni.  I hope we can further our efforts for tuition assistance for those who struggle to afford Catholic Education. Finally, as we celebrate Catholic Schools Week, just remember: it’s all worth it! God Bless!