Celebrating November with All the Saints and All Souls

Dear Parishioners:

We begin the month of November this Thursday with the celebration of the Solemnity of All Saints. It is a Holy Day of Obligation for all Catholics and we celebrate four Masses. All Saints Day is day on which we commemorate all the saints both the known and the unknown. The Catholic Church also dedicates the entire month of November to praying for the Holy Souls in Purgatory.

On Friday, we commemorate All Souls Day as we pray for the Holy Souls in Purgatory. We celebrate three Masses and after the 9:00AM Mass we process to our parish cemetery, St. Patrick’s, to pray for the souls at rest in that sacred ground. I ask that you return your All Souls Day envelopes with the names of your beloved dead prior to Friday so they might be remembered on All Souls Day.

The Church teaches us that praying for the dead is a spiritual work of mercy. The greatest prayer we could ever offer for the dead is the prayer of the Mass. At Mass we unite our own personal prayers — those emanating from our lips, our hearts, even our bodies in all types of actions of loving sacrifice for others — to Christ’s own prayer in the Mass. The Mass is the continuous, saving sacrifice once-and-for-all begun during the Last Supper and finished on the Cross.

Pope Francis teaches us: “Church tradition has always urged prayer for the dead, in particular by offering the celebration of the Eucharist for them: it is the best spiritual help that we can give to their souls, particularly to the most abandoned ones. The foundation of prayers in suffrage of souls is in the communion of the Mystical Body.”

This communion as the Mystical Body of Christ is expressed most powerfully at Mass. Therefore, over the centuries the Church has venerated the practice of praying for the dead at Mass. The Church continues to have Masses offered for a particular loved one as well as praying, in every Eucharistic prayer, for all those “who have gone before us with the sign of faith.”

The All Souls envelopes with the names of your beloved dead are remembered at Masses in November. The Masses celebrated for deceased loved ones throughout the month of November is truly a an act of love, charity and faith. We hope and pray that others continue this tradition of faith and charity after we’ve gone to our eternal reward. This work of mercy is very much honored at OLM. Many parishioners never let an anniversary of death, birthday, or wedding anniversary go by without praying at Mass for the repose of the soul of a loved one. Some Catholics routinely have Masses offered for the forgotten souls in Purgatory. These are profoundly humble, Catholic and wise acts

In addition to having Masses offered for the dead, I urge you to pray daily in November this prayer of St. Gertrude. She was a great 13th century Benedictine nun and mystic, to whom Jesus had revealed this prayer promising that every time it was devoutly prayed it would help 1,000 souls in Purgatory:

“Eternal Father, I offer you the most precious blood of your dearly beloved Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, in union with the Masses said throughout the world today, for all the holy souls in purgatory, for sinners everywhere, for sinners in the Universal Church, those in my own home, and within my own family. Amen.”

We invite you to join with us next Sunday, November 4th at the 10:30AM Mass as we remember those parishioners of OLM who have died over this past year. All those faithful souls who we’ve laid to rest will be prayed for at the Mass. We have invited their grieving families to join us at this special Mass of Remembrance. I ask you to please pray for the gentle repose of their souls and the consolation of their family.

Please note that beginning next Saturday, November 3rd, the 5:00PM Mass moves back to 4:00PM on Saturdays until April. Also Confessions now begin at 3:00PM. Mark your calendars and spread the word! In November please pray for the dead as it is a spiritual work of mercy. Eternal rest grant unto them and may perpetual light shine upon them. Don’t forget to attend Mass on the All Saints Holy Day.

Be well. Do good. God Bless. Go Sox! Go Pats!!! See you on Monday at our final October Devotions!

Proclaim the Truth, Every Life is Sacred!

ear Parishioners:                   

The month of October is annually observed by the Catholic Church in the United States as Respect Life Month. We are called to cherish, defend, and protect those who are most vulnerable, from the beginning of life to its end, and at every point in between.   Last Monday we offered our October Devotions for the increased respect of all human life and dignity.  For the Church, there is no distinction between defending human life and promoting the dignity of the human person.

As Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI writes in his encyclical letter, Caritas in Veritate: "The Church forcefully maintains this link between life ethics and social ethics, fully aware that 'a society lacks solid foundations when, on the one hand, it asserts values such as the dignity of the person, justice and peace, but then, on the other hand, radically acts to the contrary by allowing or tolerating a variety of ways in which human life is devalued and violated, especially where it is weak or marginalized.'"

As a gift from God, every human life is sacred from conception to natural death. The life and dignity of every person must be respected and protected at every stage and in every condition. The right to life is the first and most fundamental principle of human rights. It must  lead all faithful Catholics to actively work for a world of greater respect for human life  and dignity and to strive for a greater commitment to justice and peace.  The Gospel of Life should guide us and lead us. 

This fundamental truth of our teaching cannot be changed and certainly is not a matter of popularity or polling.  Last Sunday’s Providence Journal released a poll that suggested a majority of Catholics support the efforts by abortionists and their allies to expand abortion law in Rhode Island.  Such a poll is actually rather meaningless when it comes to fundamental Church teaching and the truth of the Gospel of Life.

The Ten Commandments, the Teachings of Jesus Christ and His Church are not  meant to be polled to see which are the most popular.  If moral truths are matter of polling or popularity then there would be no moral truth!  Let’s be very clear that the direct killing of innocent unborn children by abortion is always evil and a grave moral sin.  This truth is unchangeable whether the Providence Journal polls otherwise or not!

I spoke with a parishioner who was polled by the Journal for last Sunday’s article. He suggested that the question on abortion was rather general and  misleading.  The truth of the matter is that the legislation being proposed by the abortion lobby and their allies is a radical bill that does much more than codify the US Supreme Court Decision, Roe v. Wade.

The proposed legislation would allow for the gruesome practice of partial birth abortion, deregulate the abortion mills and provide your tax dollars to pay for abortion on demand.  The question in the poll did not include a full or accurate description of the proposed legislation.  It seems the Providence Journal is more interested in manufacturing news than reporting it! 

Not reported in the Providence Journal were the recent remarks of Pope Francis. At his General Audience in Rome last week,  he reflected on the 5th Commandment “Thou shall not kill.” He stated: “The ‘he’ or ‘she’ that one presents as a problem, is, in reality, a gift from God, which can make me come out of my egocentrism and make me grow in love.”

The Pope decried “the suppression of human life in the maternal womb, in the name of safeguarding other rights.” He compared abortion to the hiring of a Mafia assassin to kill someone, asking: “But how can an act that ‘does away’ with innocent and defenseless life in its origin be therapeutic, civil or simply human? I pose the question to you: Is it right to do away with a human life to resolve a problem? One cannot,” it’s not right ’to do away’ with a human being, although small, to resolve a problem.”

In this Respect Life Month of October let us pray our rosaries for an increase of respect for human life and dignity. As we prepare for election day in November let us  pray for candidates who believe in the right to life especially for the innocent and vulnerable of our society. Our Lady of Life, pray for us!

Be well. Do good. God Bless. Go Sox! Go Pats!!! See you on Monday at Devotions!

Living Faith at OLM

Dear Parishioners:

Last week we sent in our Annual Report of Sacramental Statistics to the Diocese of Providence. Each year we compile the number of sacraments administered at OLM along with the number people attending Masses and enrolled in Catholic Schools and Religious Education programs.

We currently have 2,047 families registered at OLM with a total of 6,900 parishioners. This is a decrease from last year by 40 families. Of course, registered at OLM is a rather broad term. It includes anyone who registered and has not indicated they’ve left the parish. About half the registered families with a total of 1,370 receive the weekly budget envelopes. Only slightly more than 500 parish families actually contribute with either the weekly budget envelope or through online giving (EFT).

Nearly 100 faithful souls attend our daily 7:30am Mass with about 1,200 total coming to Mass on weekends. This number has remained consistent in the last few years. Some Masses are better attended than others. This year we baptized 42 infants into the Catholic Faith which is an increase from last year’s 36 baptized babies. Also another 8 children were baptized this year. Overall most parishes report a growing decrease in baptisms as couples seem to be having less children and many others choosing not to practice any type of religion,

We had 65 young children receive First Holy Communion last May. This is a decrease from the 82 the previous year. Again this is part of a growing trend in our state as there are less and less children being born and/or raised with religious faith. We had 87 young adults Confirmed in the Catholic Faith last October. This is an increase by one over the previous year. In addition, we had another 8 adults confirmed in the faith including one adult who was baptized a Catholic and two others who converted to the Catholic Faith last year.

Twenty-one young couples received the Sacrament of Marriage at OLM last year. This is a very large increase from the previous year when only 9 couples were married at OLM. Of course, these numbers are also reflective of the societal trend of less couples getting married at all or getting married in a Church.

We gave the Sacrament of the Sick to 85 people last year. Over thirty of these anointings were done as the person was dying. And we continue to get many people coming to Confession at OLM both on Saturday afternoons and Monday nights.

We laid to rest 58 souls last year at OLM. Most of these deceased parishioners received a Mass of Christian Burial. However, some had family members choose to have either a funeral home service or graveside prayers only. This is a troubling trend as people who do not practice the Catholic Faith choose not to have their loved ones receive a Mass of Christian Burial even when the deceased ar faithful Mass goers. Every Catholic by virtue of their baptism is due the dignity and honor of a Mass of Christian Burial. May they rest in peace and may eternal light shine upon them.

The statistical report indicates that the faith is still very much alive and well at OLM. Many people continue to come to Mass and receive the Sacraments of the Church. Of course, there is always room for growth and improvement. We know many of our neighbors and family members do not practice their Catholic Faith on a regular basis.

So help us evangelize at OLM. Invite a friend or family member to attend Mass with you. If you know someone is sick or is having surgery, call the priests so we can give them the Sacrament of the Sick. If you know a young couple who are getting married, invite them to consider a Sacramental Wedding at OLM rather than a ceremony on a beach in Aruba!

We offer a fond farewell to our OLM Soloist, Deirdre Donovan, this weekend as she retires from Church singing. We shall miss her beautiful voice uplifting us to God each week at Mass. God’s blessing upon her.

October is for Mary and the Rosary. Join us for Devotions on Mondays at 7:00pm. This Monday we offer our Rosary for an increase of respect for all human life. Take some time and join us in prayer. Be well. Do good. God Bless. Go Sox! Go Pats!!! See you on Monday at Devotions!

When We Sing, We Pray Twice

Dear Parishioners:

The OLM Childrens Choir under the direction of Deirdre Donovan.

For the last few years we’ve heard the beautiful voice of our talented soloist, Deirdre Donavan, at Mass. Recently she took on a full-time job teaching music in public school. So after twenty-two years singing at weekend Masses at Catholic parishes, she informed me that she intends to “retire” from being a Church Soloist. Next weekend is to be her final weekend singing at OLM. It is of course a bitter-sweet time for us at OLM. We shall miss her voice and talent that has added so much to our worship of God at Holy Mass. But we can appreciate that she might like to spend more time with her husband and family on weekends!

In your name, I offer my heartfelt thanks and gratitude to Deirdre for her service to OLM. We wish her well on her future endeavors and the blessings of God! In this time of transition for our music program, our talented Music Director, Henri St. Louis will continue to play and sing at Masses along with the OLM Choir. Also we will continue to the great work begun by Deirdre with our Children’s Choir. We thank Henri and our Choir members for continuing to share their time and talent in lifting up our worship of Almighty God!

The goal for Sacred Music, or anything at Mass should never be “us’ or “me.” Let us not think so much about ourselves but on the contrary, we should conform our lives to God. St. Thomas Aquinas, the great Doctor of the Church said: “All things are in God as their first model.”

Pope Pius XII in his encyclical, Musicae sacrae disciplina, beautifully summarized the role of sacred music. He taught: "Thus, at the instance and under the sponsorship of the Church, sacred music, through the course of centuries, has traversed a long road by which, though sometimes slowly and laboriously, it has finally reached the heights: from the simple and natural Gregorian modes, which are, moreover, quite perfect in their kind, to great and even magnificent works of art which not only human voices, but also the organ and other musical instruments embellish, adorn and amplify almost endlessly.”

“He who sings,” said St. Augustine, “prays twice.” The holy Bishop of Hippo meant that singing adds to our praise and worship of God—that our voices are gifts, with which we can make music to the Lord. Sung prayer expresses the joy of the heart, the happiness resulting from one who has encountered Jesus Christ and experienced his love. Sung prayer reminds us of the choirs of heaven, with whom we are called to praise God eternally in heaven.

The Second Vatican Council taught that, “liturgical worship is given a more noble form when the divine offices are celebrated solemnly in song, with the assistance of sacred ministers and the active participation of the people.” When the sacred liturgy is sung, it becomes more beautiful, and more reflective of the beauty of the Most Blessed Trinity.

Christians have sung in sacred liturgy since the Church’s earliest days. And the Jewish people have sung praise to God, in the context of holy worship, for thousands of years. The Psalms are the record of the liturgical song-prayers of the Jewish people. When we sing in the context of Holy Mass, we join a tradition of sacred worship that goes back to at least the time of King David himself. “Let us come before him with a song of praise,” wrote King David, “joyfully sing out our psalms.”

When we sing, we experience God’s presence in a new way. Pope St. John Paul prayed that every Catholic, by “expressing their faith harmoniously and solemnly in song, will experience its richness ever more fully and will abide by the commitment to express its impulses in their daily life.” St. Augustine was right—he who sings prays twice. May we sing together in holy worship, and our homes in praise and thanksgiving for all that God has given us.

Thank you to the many parishioners who have given to the Annual Parish Collection thus far. It’s off to a good start but we still have not heard from many other parishioners yet. Please put your Annual Collection donation in the basket or send it by mail. Thanks for the support!

October is for Mary and the Rosary. Join us on Mondays at 7:00pm. Be well. Do good. God Bless. Go Sox! Go Pats!!!

Praying, Golfing, Singing, Acting and Celebrating Mercy at OLM

Dear Parishioners:

What a week! We celebrated mercy and faith all week here at OLM. On Monday we began with a Solemn Feast Day Mass at which OLM native son, Fr. Brian Morris, preached a terrific homily. It was a truly prayerful and holy way to begin our OLM Feast Week. We then made our way to the OLM Saints and Scholars Open!

Father Gerry Beirne, Father Nick Smith, Deacon John Dowd and Msgr. Gerry Sabourin enjoyed golfing for the Saints and Scholars of OLM School!

This annual golf tournament is always a great day of fun in support of our parish school. We had close to 100 golfers teeing it up for OLM at Warwick Country Club. Fr. Barrow and I even played! We hit the ball many, many times!! The Chair of the OLM Saints and Scholars Open, Jaime Pedro, deserves kudos for her hard work and dedication on this event. Save the date for next year’s Saints and Scholars Open at Quidnessett Country Club on Monday, September 23, 2019!

On Tuesday night we came together to pray before the Eucharistic Lord. Our OLM Choirs provided beautiful sacred music in honor of our Blessed Mother. Fr. Stephen Battey delivered an outstanding message on the meaning of mercy. It was truly a peaceful and prayerful way to celebrate mercy. I thank our parish choirs led by Henri St. Louis and Deirdre Donovan for sharing their many talents in honor of God.

OLM School 4th Grader Joseph Ferris helps during the Act of Mercy, Socks & Sandwiches for the Homeless!

Wednesday night saw a great crowd come together for an Act of Mercy. “Socks and Sandwiches for the Homeless” was a wonderful way to help the poor and needy. We are grateful to the OLM Parishioners who helped us make a few hundred sandwiches and distribute some needed socks for the homeless. This Act of Mercy truly was a terrific way to put our faith into action with charity and mercy.

Finally on Friday night we gathered to celebrate Octoberfest! This fun-filled family event was a great time to celebrate as the Our Lady of Mercy Family! German food and beer was in ample supply as were lots of good times for parishioners of all ages. The Octoberfest wouldn’t have been such fun without the hard work of many volunteers and the dedication of the OLM Staff.

Also we are grateful for the generous support of the Lynch Construction Company and their lights, the Galleshaw Family of Wrights Farm and their tent, OLM Parishioner Scott Nicchia from Boars Head Meats for all the bratwurst, knockwurst and sauerkraut, Erica Maddaena of Wild Harvest Bakery for the delicious German Potato Salad and Apple Streusel, and the Granatiero of Savory Grape for the gift baskets.

In your name, I offer thanks and gratitude to the many people who volunteered and worked so hard to ensure the Week of Mercy was such a great success for our parish family. We also thank the many generous people who donated financially in support of this celebration of Our Lady of Mercy. We now look forward to the month of October which begins on Monday!

Our Lady of Mercy, pray for us!

Of course, October is a month dedicated to the Blessed Virgin Mary. Each Monday during October join us for Marian Devotions as we pray the Rosary before the Eucharistic Lord. This Monday we offer a Rosary of Reparation for the Sins of the Church. In this challenging time for our Church it is important we continue to turn to prayer and seek the Blessed Mother’s powerful intercession.

Next Monday, October 7th. Deacon Eric Sliva, who served here at OLM as a Summer Seminarian, leads our Devotions and offers us a reflection. Our Rosary on October 7th is offered for an increase of vocations to the priesthood and religious life. Be sure to put October Devotions on your weekly schedule and join us each Monday at 7pm to pray the Rosary in honor of our Blessed Mother Mary. It will be the among the most peaceful and fruitful half hour you spend during the week!

St. Padre Pio reminds us: “Some people are so foolish that they think they can go through life without the help of the Blessed Mother. Love the Madonna and pray the rosary, for her Rosary is the weapon against the evils of the world today. All graces given by God pass through the Blessed Mother.”

Next weekend we welcome as team of educators from the New England Association of Schools and Colleges as they visit OLM School and review our accreditation. Be well. Do good. God Bless. Go Sox! Go Pats!!!

Celebrating Our Parish Feast with a Week of Mercy

Dear Parishioners:

On Monday we celebrate the Feast of Our Lady of Mercy. On our Patronal Feast we pray for the continued intercession of our parish patroness for our parish and school. We begin with a Solemn Feast Day Mass on Monday at 9:00AM. The homilist for the Mass is Fr. Brain Morris, a native son of OLM Parish and a graduate of OLM School. He now serves as the Associate Pastor at St. Luke Church in Barrington. I hope you can join us for the Mass but if you cannot, please spend some time on our Feast Day praying for our parish and the intercession of Our Lady of Mercy.

Following the Mass on Monday, we continue the celebration at the OLM Saints and Scholars Golf Tournament at Warwick Country Club. This should be a fun filled day as we golf in support of our parish and school. I am grateful to Providence College Basketball Coach Ed Cooley and UConn Basketball Coach Dan Hurley who are golfing with us! Please pray for good weather and for the novice golfers like myself!

The Week of Mercy continues as on Tuesday at 7:00PM as we gather to pray and reflect with sacred music. Join us in payer and reflection before the Eucharistic Lord as we listen to beautiful sacred music. Father Stephen Battey, the Associate Pastor of Our Lady of Mount Carmel in Bristol, will offer a talk on the meaning of mercy. Father was ordained just last June and is a fine young priest and gifted preacher. I hope you might join us as we pray together as a parish family and reflect upon the meaning of mercy in our lives.

On Wednesday night we continue our Celebration of Mercy by gathering for an Act of Mercy. Join us for “Socks and Sandwiches for the Homeless” at 6:00pm on Wednesday. We invite all OLM families to join us in the OLM Cafeteria as we make sandwiches for the homeless. All you need to do is show up with a new pair of adult socks and be willing to make a sandwich for the poor and hungry! This a great opportunity to put mercy into action, so please join us!

We end our Celebration of Mercy on Friday night with the OLM Octoberfest. This new event replaces the Parish Picnic we’ve had in previous years on Sundays. This fun-filled family event is a great way for us to gather as a parish family. We will have German food including bratwurst, knockwurst, sauerkraut, hot dogs, German Potato Salad, German Apple Strudel, German Pretzels and of course German Beer! Join us under the tent or in the Biergarden. Bring your own Bavarian Beer Stein or purchase a commemorative OLM Stein. There are games planned for the kids and adults alike. Raffles and prizes! Tickets are on sale after all Masses this weekend. OLM Octoberfest is a great new and fun-filled way to end our Celebration of Mercy Week!

The German tradition of Octoberfest begin with a celebration in anticipation of the Bavarian Crown Prince Ludwig’s marriage to Princess Therese of Saxony in October 1810. In late September, the citizens of Munich attended the festivities held on the fields in front of the city gates to celebrate the upcoming happy royal event. The fields have been named Theresienwiese ("Theresa's fields") in honor of the Crown Princess ever since, Horse races in the presence of the Royal Family marked the close of the event that was celebrated as a festival for the whole of Bavaria. The decision to repeat the horse races in the subsequent year gave rise to the tradition of the Oktoberfest.

We won’t be having horseraces at OLM but we will gather to celebrate as a parish family as we anticipate the month of October dedicated to our patroness, the Blessed Virgin Mary. The Octoberfest is this coming Friday, September 28th from 6:00pm until 9:00pm. Stop by and say hello, celebrate our parish and our faith under the tent. We will have German music and I am told some people might even wear traditional German Lederhosen (leather shorts)! A Celebration of Mercy is here! Let’s honor Our Lady of Mercy, our parish patroness and guide, with prayer, with acts of mercy, with sacred music, and with a little fun! Pray to Our Lady of Mercy and beg her continued intercession for our parish and for your own needs! Our Lady of Mercy, pray for us!

Be well. Do good. God Bless. Go Sox! Go Pats!!!